Category Archives for "Self Awareness"
Who am I and what is my soul purpose?
Celebrating Your Divine Love on Mother’s Day
“Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.” – Barbara Kingsolver
(The photo is a cheesecake that my daughter, Hui, baked last year. Needless to say, it was Yummy!!)
Mother’s day is an occasion to celebrate you (assuming you are one) being a mother.
Don’t undermine your role.
As the nurturing caregiver, you are not only the one who makes sure that your children’s basic needs are met but also the one who is the cheerleader to your children’s dreams. You help shape the lives of tomorrow’s leaders.
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How to Spot 10 Warning Signs of Narcissism in Your Partner
Someone with signs of narcissism is described as extremely self-centered. The narcissist is predominantly preoccupied with thoughts of “I, me, myself or mine”. Egoistical, he (or she) strives to be in a superior position. What differentiates narcissism from other forms of behaviour is sadism. The narcissist tends to disparage and belittle others.
Like many other conditions, narcissism occurs in a spectrum. At its most extreme, it is known as Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This article covers content that pertains to individuals with narcissistic tendencies. For an accurate diagnosis, please consult with a trained mental health professional.
“Unconscious people – and many remain unconscious, trapped in their egos throughout their lives – will quickly tell you who they are: their name, their occupation, their personal history, the shape or state of their body, and whatever else they identify with.” – Eckhart Tolle
I was speaking to a client the other day. Michelle (pseudonym) has been feeling rather battered by her husband. From her descriptions, it appears that her husband is someone who has narcissistic traits. Of course, her sense of self-worth and self-love were not high to begin with.
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Interview Story: Heal Cancer with Self-Love
“Befriend, don’t battle, cancer.”
“We cannot take a spiritual bypass, especially when we are faced with a challenge of this magnitude.”
“Make more room for the light.”
– Rev Denise DeSimone during the interview call
I would like to introduce to you, Rev Denise DeSimone, author to the book From Stage IV to Center Stage
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How to Build Healthy Self-Esteem By Balancing the Ego
Building healthy self esteem is a popular topic area with many personal development experts. After all, it is considered to be the foundation for individual success. Obviously, if you have low self esteem, it can become hard to achieve much in life. As the experts say, you need to believe that you are worthy of success in order to attract success. Mostly, everyone likes to do business with you if you have a winning attitude, one that reeks of success.
“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.”- Malcolm S. Forbes
According to Freud, an important part of humanity is the ego. The traditional formula for success is to build the ego so that you increase your sense of self-worth. The danger is that a strong ego can eventually lead to an inflated sense of self. You experience the constant need to prove yourself as superior to others. It is a false sense of self-esteem that you are building, if you ask me.
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Self-Love Story by A Reader: Tess Vergara
“Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves work miracles in our lives.” – Louis Hay
Today, I would like to introduce you to Tess Vergara, a reader to this site. She bought my Self-Love Secrets: How to Love Yourself Unconditionally some time ago. Here are some of the things she wrote in various comments and emails…..
“I was actually looking at it today and smiling at the notes I made along the margin. Thank God that difficult part of my life is over and life is good again.”
“Thanks Evelyn! You are my baby step to my quest for peace and happiness. I just want to thank you for the inspiration, guidance and knowledge you have given me in the past year or so. You kept my wheels turning, tha’ts for sure! Thanks for being in my life at just the right time. More power to you!”
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How to Eliminate Negative Self-Talk with Self-Love Meditation
“Relentless, repetitive self-talk is what changes our self-image.” Denis Waitley
Reportedly, we can have as many as 70,000 thoughts in a day. If we minus off 8 hours of sleep, it will work out to having a thought every 1.2 seconds. In the constant stream of thoughts, we are interpreting situations through our filters. There is a conversation going on in our minds. Psychologists call the conversation “self-talk”.
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Launch of Self-Love Healing Program
“Raise your Self-Love Quotient. Fill your heart with eternal source essence and amplify 100% of your light.”
It’s finally here! The Self-Love Healing Program!
Receive a discount if you purchase the program during the promotional period.
Check out the details here http://www.SelfLoveHealing.com.
Love and abundance always,
Certified Life Coach. Energy Healing Practitioner.
What Is The Level of Your Self-Love Quotient
“Raise your self-love quotient. Fill your heart with eternal source essence. As you raise your quotient, the vibrational state of your being – that allows you to easily manifest a life of love – rises.” Self-Love Healing
Tune into your heart…..and allow the answers to the following questions to surface.
How much do you truly love yourself unconditionally?
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A Confession About My Self-Love Healing Journey
“A confession has to be part of your new life.” – Ludwig Wittgenstein
If you had read my book, Self-Love Secrets or been a subscriber to my posts, then you already know that I have had blocks with self-love for several years in my life. However, what I may not have told my story quite so clearly previously is this……
Right after becoming a certified life coach a few years ago, I thought I had finally learned what the magic bullets are for personal transformation. And so, armed with the desire to “contribute to humanity”, it seemed easy to dish wonderful tips out to others and especially through a website.
Yet, things were not the same on the personal front. Time and time again, due to some situational triggers, I would fall back into the same old negative self-talk patterns of criticism, rejection and judgment. I was unhappy and impatient with myself.
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News Alert: Launch of Self-Love Healing Program
“Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi
I am excited to share that I will be launching my Self-Love Healing Program in slightly more than a week’s time. It is almost ready for publication. For this Program, I have been working on writing and recording some guided meditation audios that would help take anyone into deeper self-love.
Self-Love Healing Program is the follow-up to my book, Self-Love Secrets. Working on this Program just seems like the next natural step, as I have been receiving “messages” to continue assisting others in the area of self-love. Externally, I have also been getting a number of clients who show up with “anger spears” that they have been directing at themselves.
It was only in November last year that I could get cracking after sitting on the idea over several months. November came and proved to be perfect timing as it was prior to the ascension date of December 21, 2012. I was already planning to allocate more time for inner healing and meditation. As a result, the scripts were written during a time when I was in greater solitude and experiencing greater soul-level awareness.
A new launch always feels like birthing a new child. The launch has been slated to be on March 20. To celebrate the occasion, I will be offering a promotional discount over a limited time period. So if you are interested, do keep a look out for more news on the promotion.
I am still in the midst of finishing up the recordings. I will be back with more details about the program later in the week. Stay tuned!
Love and abundance always,
Author. Adventurer. Life Coach. More About Me.
P.S. Listen to a guided meditation sampling at the end of my recent free teleclass – download here.