[Client Story] Breaking Free from High Anxiety During Covid Lockdown
Charmain Tan approached me for help when her anxiety started to spike during the lockdown in 2020.
She kindly sent me a letter of gratitude and recounted what happened to her…Continue reading
3 Lessons of 2020
2020 has been a difficult year for most. Against the backdrop of confusion, chaos and challenges, I reviewed the happenings that took place, in order to redesign plans for a new year ahead.
As 2020 comes to an end, I’d like to invite you to do the following too…
What’s your review for 2020 like?
What were your 3 most important lessons learnt?
How can you pivot your life and business for a stronger 2021 ahead?
May 2021 be a better year for you.
To your success, health and happiness!
Love and abundance always,
Evelyn Lim
What the 5 Signs of Having Mindset Blocks are
What happens if you don’t even know you have mindset blocks?
What are the signs?
To begin with, why is even important to identify whether you have mindset blocks or not?
Well, for a start, mindset blocks can keep you stuck or struggling more than you need to. It obstructs your success. A mindset block arises when you have the story of “I want to achieve this goal or dream but (the reason)”. You may even have more than one “but” on why you can’t achieve what you want.
Invariably, the reason behind the “but” stems from a limiting belief. Your “but this” or “but that” are actually excuses. Excuses are a form of self-sabotage.
What Are The 6Cs to Generating Cash Flow for Your Business (For Coaches, Energy Healers and Solopreneurs)
What are the 6Cs to Generating Cash Flow for Your Solopreneur Business?
Which Cs are you missing?
And which C is the C that you need to work on the most now?
Your business plan needs to incorporate these 6Cs in order to survive and thrive.
If you are a coach, energy healer or a solopreneur, find out how you can generate Cash Flow for your business immediately in the video below.
Share your comments and thoughts below!
Wishing you every success in manifesting the business of your dreams,
and making an income from the work that you love!
Love and Abundance always,
Evelyn Lim
Mindset, Marketing & Manifestation Coach
for Women Coaches, Energy healers and Solopreneurs
Feature Image by Gerd Altmann,
Bust this Myth: You Don’t Need a Mindset Coach when You Can Get Tips for FREE Online
Why work with a mindset coach or someone who helps you release emotional stress when you can get a ton of mindset tips for free online?
You could, for instance, watch free online tapping videos on how to work on emotional release.
Or get inspired by motivational videos on Goalcast (in the hope that these will kick you into action).
Or read a bunch of articles on positive affirmations and beliefs on the web, in the hope that these will sink into your subconscious.
Why then would you want to work with a mindset coach individually over paid sessions when you can learn, read or apply all these for free online?
You may be thinking: it sounds silly to spend money on mindset so that you can make more money, when you are already struggling with money issues.
Well, listen in to this video on why it is a myth that you don’t need to work with a coach, especially if you are running a business.
Find out the benefits of working with a coach over 1:1 sessions.
Would like to improve your inner game and double your results in half the time? Apply for a 30-minute complimentary discovery call (worth $200) with me, where you get a plan on how to get from stuck to breakthrough.
Let’s connect,
Evelyn Lim
Women Empowerment Coach
for Coaches, Energy Healers and Solopreneurs
What are Money Blocks and How to Release Them Effectively
What are money blocks that keep you from attracting the abundance that you deserve?
When you are not being hired for your services, you may be tempted to believe that the problem stems from a branding issue. When you are not able to generate more sales for your product, you could be thinking that the problem lies with the lack of a marketing plan. In both situations, you are not making the money you deserve.
Hence, your first move may be to hire a branding or marketing specialist.
However, you could also find that these solutions could not fix your problems adequately, especially where you continue to be in struggle. It may even appear that the strategies work for everyone else except for you. No matter what you’ve attempted, the methods applied did not work sufficiently. And you wonder, why has the Universe abandoned you?
I would like to invite you to take a step back to reflect.
Could it be that you’ve been in the same negative patterns of emotional struggle over money matters for a long time now?
On reflection, you may discover that while things have improved over the years, you are still far from manifesting your dream or money breakthrough. You are currently feeling depleted in energy, miserable, frustrated, disappointed and ashamed. It will be great if you can change your situation and improve your results.
Well, for change to happen, may I propose that you start from the beginning. Find out what are the money blocks that you’ve created in the past. In other words, address these blocks at root cause.
“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.” —Khalil Gibran
Money Leak: Internal or External
Just imagine the scenario of having a cut. You are likely to use a band aid or apply a bandage for your cut. If it is a small cut, that will do the trick! Your bleeding stops.
However, a bandage is not going to help you in a situation that stems from major internal bleeding. In fact, a bandage could hide the problem that you are having. From the inside, you are still losing blood. And you have no idea where the bleeding is coming from – which organ, tissue or body part?
Well, money blocks create a leakage in your energy system. They arise internally. To address the leakage requires you to look within.
What are Money Blocks
Money blocks comprise of negative emotions and limiting beliefs and are often created as a result of negative experiences in the past.
Examples of money beliefs include
– Money is the root of all evils,
– I can’t be spiritual and rich at the same time,
– I need to slave hard for the money
– I am just not good enough to manage money etc.
Money blocks cause you to be in self-sabotage. They create a disruption in your energy system and lower your vibrational state of being. Consequently, you find yourself unable to manifest the financial abundance that you deserve effortlessly and easily. Your financial stress increases and your overall well-being reduces.
Release Money Blocks from the Past
Money blocks often arise from a past event. However, do note that the past only exists in the mind. It exists because you keep your old story alive in your mind. That’s why you call it a memory. Memory is a mental construct. Since the memory of the past exists only as a construction, NLP co-founder Richard Bandler postulates, “It is never too late to have a happy childhood.”
Because the past is something that is created in the mind, you have the power to change it. Even though the past may be what you would say “actually happened”, it does not serve you any more to carry it as a burden. When you carry the memory as a burden, you disrupt your own peace and harmony.
You are kept living in the past when you refuse to let it go.
“You know why it’s hard to be happy—it’s because we refuse to LET GO of the things that make us sad.” Bruce Lipton
The same old disruptive tape plays in your mind over and over again. Over time, you leak power. It puts you out-of-alignment with the vibrational frequency of the financial abundance that you are hoping to attract.
Do note that releasing money blocks at a general level may not be enough to create the transformation that you are looking for. If you have encountered negative situations in childhood or a past traumatic even that led to the forming of money beliefs, they need to be dealt with specifically. In other words, specific events or situations need to be addressed at root cause.
Release Money Blocks Effectively with Tapping
Tapping away money blocks at root cause potentially sets you free.
In my 10 years of experience, I have found that applying Meridian Tapping to produce excellent results for releasing money blocks. Meridian Tapping or EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) simply involves using fingertips to tap on specific meridian points on our faces and body, while articulating a set of healing statements. Clients are guided to retrack their past memories and to tap away the emotional disruptions and limiting beliefs that were formed arising from the specific events.
Once a release happens, your energy system is reset with open channels. You experience a vibrational shift upwards as you are no longer blocked. It becomes a lot easier to leverage on the Law of Attraction for bringing your dreams into manifestation.
Tap Away Money Blocks and Transform Your Life
It wouldn’t do for me to recommend the band aid as the solution that will definitely fix the problem of money stress. The solution will not be adequate if I suspect that there is internal bleeding going on. In such situations, I am more interested to investigate what the bleeding is about, where it arose and how to heal from the inside-out.
My focus is to help you address the root cause of your issues and to guide you on transmuting pain into power, while integrating important lessons. Thus, you are no longer held back by the past.
Releasing money blocks is not a get-rich-quick method. Rather, addressing the root cause of your issues is what makes the distinction between getting mediocre results (one that merely helps you get through a transition – the band aid solution) – and getting superior results (one that not only takes you through a transition but aids you in your spiritual transformation).
What I recommend is an inside-out mind, body and soul system that offers powerful spiritual integration in the physical and that takes you to wholeness.
“Transformation occurs when we release energy blocks at all levels: emotional, mental, spiritual and physical.” Evelyn Lim
Over to you. What are the money blocks that you could be having? Which will you choose – address external factors only or address the heart of your issues at root cause?
Love and abundance always,
Evelyn
P.S. Apply for a 30-min complimentary call if you have further questions and/or need more assistance on releasing money blocks.
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How to Awaken Your Divine Feminine When You Have Lost Yourself
You will need to awaken your Divine Feminine if you have lost yourself.
Losing yourself can happen in various ways. One big way is when you have lost yourself in your multiple roles – as a wife, mother, lover, friend, leader and so on. At the root, you could have beliefs that stop you from connecting with your female energy and shining your core brilliance.
Born female, you could have been taught that you are of the inferior sex to males. You were told that you are to play more of a supporting role. And that you have little or less right to be heard. Invariably, you give your power away.
Thus, your Divine Feminine gets hidden, forgotten and suppressed. Over time, you become increasingly disconnected with her. When you diminish yourself as a female, you feel less attractive and if I guess right, will have difficulties with loving and accepting yourself unconditionally. Aligning with your highest potential becomes challenging. You are unable to hold your own even when you need to show up confidently.
Should this be true, you are not alone.
How to Grow Rich with Peace of Mind
How would you like to grow rich with peace of mind?
You can’t exactly claim to be having inner peace if you are constantly tossing in bed at night and fretting over financial matters. A mind that is fraught with worry is hardly still.
Or, it may be that you are already making good money but have not acquired it in a meaningful way and with a clear conscience. While your concerns may differ from someone who is poor and struggling, you are nonetheless unhappy and not living life in fulfilment and freedom.
Well, for anyone who is having money stress, I suggest finding a better way forward.
In either situation, you are being a slave to money. You are held captive. The consequence is a negative impact on the quality of your life. As Napoleon Hill, the best-selling author of Think and Grow Rich, advocates, never allow money to master you. If you are in emotionally disrupted even whilst you are working towards wealth creation, you are not at peace.Continue reading
It Starts with a Dream (and a Visit to the Karen Hill Tribe)
See the scarves hanging by the side?
I bought a few of them from the lady in the picture to give away as gifts for my friends.
The photo was taken when I visited the Karen Hill tribe in Chiang Rai a little more than two weeks ago. The visit to tribal villages was part of a tour that we had signed up on the spur while on vacation in Chiang Mai, Thailand. Our tour guide had taken us all the way up north to the border that separates three countries, Thailand, Myanmar and Laos. We had stopped by at the Karen Hill tribe in the mountainous region.
Back at home, I gave away the scarves as intended. One of my girlfriends, in particular, like her gift. She sent me a text today to thank me. While responding to her, I reconnected with a dream that I once had. And I’d like to share about it in this post.
It Starts with a Dream
More than 10 years ago, when I was contemplating about my life purpose, I was asked this question: Why do you want to make money from your business? What will you do if you’ve made lots and lots of money, with enough to spare?
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Your Wake-up Call from the Universe
All of a sudden, it hits you that the Universe has just given you a wake-up call. It is an “aha” moment. A moment that dawns on you. It’s as if you have been asleep all this time until you discover that the answer that you seek has been staring in your face!
Prior to the sudden awareness, you may have been stressed out. You wondered about how matters have come to be. Despite tremendous effort on your part, things – at their worst – have turned out to be a mess. And so, you questioned, if God or the Universe has abandoned you?
A major life crisis such as retrenchment, bankruptcy, financial struggle, a health crisis and/or relationship breakdowns may NOT be exactly what you had in mind. Yet, you could have been dealt with a situation that has brought about much emotional turmoil. Anger. Struggle. Sadness. Loneliness. It’s like going through the dark night of your soul. Continue reading