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Benefits To Meditation

(The temple grounds of The Singapore Buddhist Lodge, where I was yesterday.)

“Meditation is like having a spa for your brains. Your brain lasts longer. And you don’t have to worry about degenerating brain cells even after 40 years old.”

These were the opening words to the Bliss Out Meditation workshop that I attended last evening. The speaker was Ajahn Brahm, head abbot of the Bodhinyana Monastery in Western Australia, on a stopover in Singapore. Ajahn Brahm is the spiritual patron to The Buddhist Fellowship, a local non-sectarian Buddhist organisation of which I volunteer my writing services to.


I was with my brother at the workshop yesterday, in the hope of introducing meditation to him. A stockbroker, he has been concerned by the recent deteriorating reports of Singapore’s economy and the impact on his clients. De-stressing via quiet sitting practices can help to still the mind, I recommended.

There has been so many articles written about meditation benefits already that I had no initial plans to publish any on my site. Then again, I am reminded that there may be others out there who will like to read one, from a monk’s perspective. And what more if it is from Ajahn Brahm?

With his usual dose of wit and humor, Ajahn Brahm provided an entertaining yet educational talk into the benefits of meditation. Highlighted in this post are quotes and notes distilled from his workshop yesterday.

Aide To Physical Relaxation. With “sweeping meditation”, we can help our body to completely relax. Sweeping meditation involves sending loving-kindness to each of our body part. Starting with the toes, we use our minds to first establish “contact”, tune into the sensations felt, relax the muscles around, ease off tensions and make peace with any pain.

Keep sending metta (which means “loving kindness” in pali) until a tingling sensation is felt. We then move on to our feet, lower calves, legs and so on, up our body, one area at a time, with the same exercise and then finally to the top of our head.

“Sweeping meditation” is a wonderful pre-start to breath meditation. Relaxing the body beforehand is helpful to calming the mind sufficiently for focus on the breath. Meditation, whether via the watching of the breath or any other form, becomes very much a gentle exercise when it is combined with loving- kindness.

Reduces Diseases; Improves Overall Health. Healing of the physical body is activated when we send loving kindness to each body part. Numerous studies have already shown that meditation is helpful in cases of cancer, depression, anxiety, bad spine, etc. Ajahn Brahm said that every physical discomfort has an emotional part to it, a view that I have often shared on my site. The act of sending metta releases the tension and stress from the part of our body that is blocked.

In terms of mental health, meditation does not cause anyone to go mad either. Responding to a question from the audience about whether or not it is dangerous to meditate, Ajahn Brahm said…

“It’s more dangerous not to meditate. Far more people become crazy not meditating than those who do.”

Being in the Now. Much of our mind is preoccupied with thoughts about the past and worries about the future. We imprison ourselves very much in the past, when we refuse to let go of thoughts that prevent us from moving forward. We keep ourselves stuck in guilt and regret.

“The past is comprised of dead moments piled onto your head.”

Likewise, when we worry, we neglect the most important time, which is now. We forget that the “future is created in the now”. If we take charge of what happens today, we take care of our tomorrows.

“Be kind to this moment. Then the moment stays with you.”

Being in the Now is the source of great happiness. No guilt and no worries. It is as if we have just come alive. We are in the reality of now. And meditation allows us to do just that. It is a practice in present moment awareness.

“Monks who meditate are the happiest people in the world.”

Allows For Clarity and Insight. Meditation is the doorway to inner wisdom. Insight is not gained from reading a religious book but from a knowing that comes from within. It comes in the gaps, the silent spaces in-between our thoughts.

“Meditation is the holy book of Buddhism.”

Sometimes we mistakenly believe that it is our thinking that helps us to know the world. However, it is the inner speech that spins the delusions. It constructs the filters by which we perceive our surroundings. Only in present moment awareness, can we access truth.

In this space, we do not attach labels or names (or “flapping mouths”) because we are not thinking. Silence simply means no commentary. We do not think thoughts like “oh..this is beautiful” or “this is gross”. We are simply in the moment. In stillness, we experience reality at its very core essence. We see reality as-is.

Ajahn Brahm shared that when he decided to slow down to take a walk as compared to looking through the window of a fast moving car one day, he was able to see very much more. He realized that he had missed so many details about his surroundings, things that he had not noticed before. He was able to listen to the birds, feel the wind, take in the sights. The reality experienced was much more deep and beautiful, simply from slowing down!!

You may then ask: Is it even possible to not think? Going by the constant chatter in our minds, most of us may well assume it impossible. To prove otherwise, Ajahn Brahm showed us a simple example. While talking, he unexpectedly stopped mid-sentence. Then he went into a pause. We waited with abated breath, taken by surprise. No thoughts. When he continued, he pointed out that we have just experienced gaps! (If you have been longing to know what the silence between thoughts feel like, try this exercise with someone!!)

Enhances Productivity. Setting aside half an hour a day for meditation can enhance our overall productivity. We are able to stay more alert and process things much faster during the rest of the day, when we allow our minds the space to rest without thoughts. The relationship between increased productivity and meditation are also backed up by numerous well-known studies.

“Meditation helps create more gigabytes between our ears.”

Your Sharing Please

Do you spend time meditating everyday? Has it benefited you? Please share if any.

Past Articles on Meditation:

1) Five Hindrances to A Successful Meditation

2) Experiencing The Gap

3) My Happiness Retreat in Khao Lak

Final Note

It is going to be a long weekend due to the Chinese New Year celebrations. It will be a time for family reunions and the gatherings of friends. I will not be publishing any posts until the end of next week. Happy New Year to all Singaporeans and Chinese around the world!!

Namaste,
Evelyn

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Vered - MomGrind - January 23, 2009

I don’t meditate, but I read somewhere there are other ways to get the same benefits, such as taking a long walk or listening to music. I do try to set aside time for relaxation every day, usually by listening to music and doing absolutely nothing else simultaneously. Exercise, when I focus on my body’s moves and take a long warm shower when I’m done, is also a great way to relax and unwind, physically and emotionally.

Marelisa - January 23, 2009

Hi Evelyn: Just yesterday I was trying to convince a friend of mine to start meditating. He’s under a lot of stress at work and goes to the gym to unwind, but I told him that meditation would be a great addition to his stress-reduction efforts. I also told him that it would help him sleep better. So good luck to you in getting your brother to meditate,and good luck to me in getting my friend to start meditating 🙂

Davina - January 23, 2009

Hi Evelyn. I’ve felt the benefits of meditation. There is nothing quite like it… and unfortunately, I’m stuck at a wall and have been avoiding it. What’s up with that? The statement, “Be kind to this moment. Then the moment stays with you,” really grabbed my attention.

Suzie Cheel - January 23, 2009

I love the opening words “Meditation is like having a spa for your brains”
and relate to this one too
“The past is comprised of dead moments piled onto your head.”
Timely reminder for me was lying in bed this morning thinking about making a regular time to meditate and here I found your post!
Thank you

Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk - January 23, 2009

I don’t sit and meditate. I do it by slipping into sacred space, which means any activity where I lose track of my ego and of time. I treasure those times and arrange my life around them.

Evita - January 23, 2009

Hi Evelyn,

Oh I don’t think we can ever hear enough about meditation. It is like the long lost kept secret that is just now making its full debut in the Western world.

I find 2 things:
1) As much as is already being said about it, many, many people are still not doing it, so that tells me that they obviously have not yet heard that one message that will invite them into what a truly magnificent experience it is

And
2) I have just started doing it a few months ago (irregularly) but still the few times that I have done it is and feels amazing. There is just something unexplainable about it that until one tries it (properly) it is almost impossible to explain the feeling that it brings – it has to be experienced!

Jay - January 23, 2009

I always find it funny when things as old and steeped in tradition such as meditation and dream analysis have seemed to avoid the main stream for century’s! You have to wonder why people avoid the very things that they are searching for such as health, and stress reduction! I try to meditate whenever the stress monster makes an appearance, even if it a simple 6 deep breaths to come back to life. Thanks for the great post- we need to make this more mainstream ASAP.

Ruth - January 23, 2009

I like the spa metaphor. If meditating were always easy, I think it would be easier for me to stick with. Like two days ago I wasn’t able to focus at all and couldn’t get a song out of my head. Other times I have insights and/or a distinct feeling of peace.

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

@Vered, good for you in finding ways to relax and de-stress. The added advantage of meditation is that insight really comes and the bliss that you get to experience is phenomenal. You’ve got to try it, to know what I mean.

@Marelisa, how coincidental. I think there is only so much I can say or do. It’ll be nice that my brother picks it up but he’s really the one in charge of how he wants to lead his life.

@Davina, I like that quote too. We seem to build so much resistance and struggle to our moments; but if we can only begin to let go and be more forgiving of ourselves, the situation and the people around, we will have felt much better.

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

Suzie,

I find regular meditation helpful, even though I don’t get very good sittings all the time. Often enough, my mind strays. But regularity aids in the training of the mind to be still.

What’s great is that with focus, sending out intentions can bring about manifestations of our exact wishes. My friends, who have been meditators for years, experience all kinds of wonderful benefits from sittings.

I encourage you to make meditation a regular exercise, especially if you are interested in applying the law of attraction more effectively.

All the best,
Evelyn

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

Jean, I like the idea of having sacred space. It’s great that you have a place to “go to” where you can relax and unwind. It’s also the time when intuition steals in.

With metta,
Evelyn

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

Evita,

I’m glad that you’ve started on meditation. I totally agree that no amount of words can explain quite what the experience is. Many of us tend to give up in the beginning stages, due to the “monkey” chatter that goes on in our minds. But if we can allow ourselves the chance to sit through, peacefully and without struggle, we can begin to know what awaits us.

Meditation may seem just like an exercise that involves sitting. But it involves numerous lessons, including letting go, observing without judging and cultivating kindness to all beings.

Namaste,
Evelyn

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

@Jay, I think a lot of us believe that we do not have the time to sit and “do nothing”, due to having a rushed and hurried lifestyle. This was how I was too. Secretly, I thought it a waste of my time. I realize that meditation is really an investment into having clarity. I do not wish to choose living life in unawareness!

@Ruth, with practice I believe it can get easier. Our resistance comes down due to our increased ability to make peace with the moments. Meditation will not be quite so difficult as it has been at the start. All the best!!

Stacey Shipman - January 23, 2009

I’ve been meditating daily for almost 2 years. I sit for 20 to 30 minutes each morning. When I don’t my day is not productive, when I do, I have the best days. Meditation is a struggle because it takes out all of our distractions. That can be unnerving. Silence and stillness, is in my opinion, the best way to find some peace in our lives. And it’s not necessarily about clearing thought, it’s just about being with what is.

I truly hope as many people as possible find their way to meditation – it’s simply sitting and breathing. What is so scary about that?

jaky - January 23, 2009

Its really wonderful the way meditation helps us. I have been using the Law of Attraction for life but Meditation is what gets me to the state of attracting everything I have. Life becomes really phenominal after we start meditating.

Evelyn - January 23, 2009

@Stacey, good for you to be able to start your mornings with a quiet sitting. I tend to meditate better in the night. An hour can easily pass by. I like the peace that comes thereafter. It’s great as a sleep inducer!

Hmmm….just a thought….it’ll be interesting to conduct a survey on why people absolutely refuse to try, even though there is already so much literature around about the benefits of meditation.

@jaky, many people don’t realize that the practice of the mind is important for applying the law of attraction effectively. “The Secret” movie puts things too simplistically.

With the law of attraction, we need to put out powerful intents for manifestation. However, we can’t do so if our mind is cluttered. More often than not, we are also manifesting our subconscious fears instead. Clear the mind (by practicing meditation and/or other methods) for the power of intention to work well.

J.D. Meier - January 23, 2009

Beautiful quotes and notes from Ajahn.

That lodge looks really awesome.

I’m a fan of being in the now. I think watching Peaceful Warrior really hammered the point home for me.

Daphne - January 23, 2009

Hi Evelyn,

Love the quote on it being dangerous not to meditate – I never thought of it that way before so I appreciate the prespective. I used to meditate daily and that was a good period. This year I want to get back to it again but it’s a slow start. Thanks for the reminder.

Happy Chinese New Year to you and yours!

Nicola Quinn - January 23, 2009

Meditation is so underrated. People think they don’t have time for it but I don’t know how they find time to do everything else in their busy lives nowadays without it.

Wonderful article, thank you so much 🙂

Andrea|Empowered Soul - January 23, 2009

Great article, Evelyn. I don’t think we can read too many times about the benefits of meditation. I think meditation is at the top of the list for most people of things they know are good for them, but are not actually doing! 🙂

My meditation practice is (mostly) daily, although the content of the practice varies. I’m just glad to finally be at the point where it’s something I just do before I go to bed every night.

Blessings,
Andrea

Nashville Plumbers - January 23, 2009

Clarity is where it helps me out the most. I get too overwhelmed if I don’t get in a meditation a day.

Mark - January 24, 2009

You have shared much valued wisdom here today, thank-you. It is not-knowing, not-thinking that we find truth.

Vincent - January 24, 2009

Hi Evelyn,

Happy Chinese New Year to you! Thanks for sharing this article and it really help me increase my knowledge on meditation. Are there only sites that teaches us how to meditate the correct way and it will be great if you can write more articles on meditation. 🙂

Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger

Evelyn - January 24, 2009

@J.D.Meier, I’ve not watched Peaceful Warrior but was curious enough to check it up on google. It must have been a really good movie, with so many inspiring messages to share. I may just rent it on DVD one day!!

@Daphne, things got so busy for me last December that I did not meditate. No excuses of course!! It’s great to get back to regular meditation. I am finding that it is getting to be my daily sustenance.

@Nicola, as I’ve told Daphne above, I am getting to the point that I cannot do without meditation.

@Andrea, same here too. It’s what I do every night before sleeping. Content varies. In whatever form, the peace that ensues is incredible!!

Evelyn - January 24, 2009

@Nashville Plumbers, hey…it’s great that you spend time meditating everyday too!!

@Mark, J.D. Meier (one of the commentators to this post) just introduced me to the movie Peaceful Warriors. May I quote from this show “Knowledge is knowing, Wisdom is doing.” So here’s my take: Wisdom is gained in the experiencing of life. Inner wisdom is what unfolds in the experiencing of meditation.

@Vincent, read my above comment to Mark. I can write more articles on meditation but to anyone who reads them, it will be just knowledge. To access truth itself, you have to do what it takes. You have to find your own answers and you can do so through meditation, via experiencing.

Giovanna Garcia - January 24, 2009

Hi Evelyn

I love what you said about, “Meditation is like having a spa for your brains.” That is how I feel, when I going to meditation I get the same feeling I get right before I go to the spa.

Thanks for an inspiring post.

Giovanna Garcia
Imperfect Action is better than NO Action

LifeMadeGreat | Juliet - January 24, 2009

Hi Evelyn

I fully subscribe to meditation and its benefits.
I also find that it improves my creativity.

All the best for the New Year.

Juliet

Alik Levin | PracticeThis.com - January 25, 2009

My favorite is “The past is comprised of dead moments piled onto your head.”
Really good mantra to adopt. Adopted. Seriously, I have enough on my head, i do not need dead stuff on it 😉
Thanks for sharing!

Arswino - January 25, 2009

Hi Evelyn, I did a meditation once but I can not remember when, it was a long time ago. Maybe I should consider to try it again sometime.
By the way, I like your thought : “Sometimes we mistakenly believe that it is our thinking that helps us to know the world. However, it is the inner speech that spins the delusions. It constructs the filters by which we perceive our surroundings. Only in present moment awareness, can we access truth.”
Thanks for sharing, Evelyn.

Evelyn - January 25, 2009

@Giovanna, most people set themselves up in resistance when they meditate. They find it difficult to calm their mind. But really, meditation is something very relaxing…like going on a spa, as you’ve also agreed.

@Juliet, I’m glad to know that you’ve benefited from meditation!

@Alik, oh yes…that mantra alone should help shift our thinking from dwelling on the past to something useful – like BEing in the Now!!

@Arswino, I’m glad that you resonated well with the few lines. We apply too much thinking. But thinking is not necessarily wisdom, especially if it is colored by our ego, prejudices, mis-interpretations, etc.

Lance - January 25, 2009

Hi Evelyn,
I do meditate. Not everyday. And, really, not enough. Because I’ve found that when I do, I find it to be very calming for my soul. For me, it’s mornings that work the best to do this, in the quiet and dark before the day gets going. When I do this, it just starts the day off “right”. Reading here today, I’m reminded of how good this is for me, and how I desire to get back to that place…thank you Evelyn.

Jannie Funster - January 25, 2009

For me, meditating outdoors under a tree by the river is the utmost. I can feel the love of nature surrounding me and peace comes so easily no matter what may small troubles may have been bothering me.

Giovanna Garcia - January 26, 2009

Hi Evelyn

Happy Chinese New Year!

Giovanna Garcia

[email protected] - January 26, 2009

I try to do mindful meditation where I focus on the task at hand and slowly complete that task. This is usually a feat unto itself because I am usually so utterly consumed with the next thing I need to do!

Happy new year. Great article.

Namaste…

Evelyn - January 26, 2009

@Lance, it’s great that you are starting your days “right”. I wish I can get up earlier. My friends tell me that the best time to meditate is 4a.m.

@Jannie, I’d like to do that one day. It sounds like a wonderful experience to meditate in such peaceful surroundings.

@Giovanna, Happy New Year to you too!

@Sheila, it’s great that you are incorporating mindfulness into your daily activities. A monk once suggested that I do that too while washing dishes.

Happiness Is Better - January 27, 2009

Wow, this post is very timely! I just finished up the book, The How of Happiness and one of the most intriguing parts of the book for me was the reference to meditation. I’ve been to yoga many times, but I have never meditated. Thanks for reminding me that I need to look into it!

Great post!

Diane - January 27, 2009

Hi!

I enjoyed this post!

I love that! Sending loving kindness to all your body parts! Great exercise after a hard days work out! Kick it up a notch with “God’s loving kindess” to all your body parts!

Dan Massicotte - January 27, 2009

Speaking of meditation, can anyone recommend good (free) sites that guide you through the motions of putting your body in a state of relaxation?

Stacey / Create a Balance - January 28, 2009

Evelyn, I know “meditation is like having a spa” for my brain and still can’t figure out why I don’t meditate. I believe in all of the benefits and simply need to place this as a priority in my life.

Liara Covert - January 28, 2009

What an encouraging post! You inspire people to realize what they already have to feel grateful for and offer them meaningful ideas to stretch and enrich themselves. As you send out positive energy, it reverberrates back at you in unforeseen ways. Thanks for ebing such a shining light. You are a blessing!

LifeSuccessMission - January 28, 2009

Meditation is best if done in the morning.

Trey - Swollen Thumb Entertainment - January 28, 2009

Hi Evelyn.

I do not meditate, but it’s on my list of things to try out in 2009. I think that a 30 day trial of meditating 30 minutes a day would be sufficient to trying it out.

I’ve tried several times in the past to pick up the babit, but I could never get past 2 or 3 days. And the advice for trying to do it the same time every day won’t work for me, because my work schedule is erratic.

I really like your attitude towards it though. And I think the quote about life being dead moments piled on top of your head is a very wise statement. I wish that I had said that first. 🙂

Evelyn - January 28, 2009

@Happiness is Better, oh yes…do check out meditation. I have benefitted from regular sittings greatly!

@Diane, do whatever works in terms of connecting to your emotions and feelings!! So if sending “God’s loving kindness” resonate better with you, by all means go ahead!!

@Dan, perhaps you may wish to check out youtube as there are tons of videos on guided meditations.

@Stacey, from what I’ve experienced, the more resistance I built, the greater the difficulty I encounter. When my thoughts start to run off, I just bring them back. No reproach. No judgement against myself.

Evelyn - January 28, 2009

@Liara, I accept your compliments with grace and gratitude. I’m honored to be able to share what I’ve personally found useful. May all, including yourself, be well, peaceful and happy!! Namaste.

@LifeSuccessMission, is there a specific time in the morning?

@Trey, I used to give myself plenty of reasons why it is not possible for me to meditate. But as I have said, meditation is really an investment in clarity. As soon as I decide that having a clear mind is important to me, making that shift towards regular meditation is not quite as difficult.

Dot - January 28, 2009

Hi Evelyn, I really enjoyed this. I’ve been saying that I meditate by walking in nature, but the fact is that I rarely do that. When I try to meditate at home, I find that my mind wanders so far that I forget I’m meditating and get up to do things. Or else I feel this very strong feeling that I’m wasting time which could be better used in doing something else. But I think I need to meditate.

Dot - January 29, 2009

PS – Belated Happy New Year!

Dot - January 29, 2009

PS – Belated Happy New Year! I would love to read about the different kinds of meditation (unless there are too many to list). I never heard of sweeping meditation. It sounds good.

Robin - January 29, 2009

Hi Evelyn – Happy New Year!

I tell you what – I’ve been doing lots of “sending loving-kindness to each of our body parts” lately, or to some of them. I’ve had a lot of intense pain from teeth and sinuses, and have been using all sorts of energy methods to try shifting it, with only moderate success. (I also damaged my toe, yesterday.) It got to “what the hell is going on!” I was thinking of writing to you or Jenny M – it’s getting better now, after 10 days.

I love everything you have said about meditation – I don’t actually practise it in a structured way – but I do think I let myself slip into a meditative state quite often.

Cheers – suffering Robin

Evelyn - January 29, 2009

Dot,

Meditation was never easy for me for a number of years. I gave up as soon as I started. Like you and many others, my mind was just too busy. Also, I was unwilling to sit down for what appeared to be an unproductive use of my time.

I think it came together for me when I started committing to my self development. I used EFT intensively and found that I could let go of many of my negative emotions. I became more calm. Then, when I tried to meditate, I was able to get pretty amazing results quickly.

As described to Stacey, when my thoughts fly off, I just bring them back. I try not to judge myself that I have not done a good sitting, etc. Initially, I start by watching my thoughts and then I gradually give them up to be in the Now – the present moment.

The moments of bliss are really profound, out of this world. No words can describe them. But I know that I have barely experienced what else there is.

I can’t say that for now, every sitting is a good one. But every session to me is a practice. I believe that I will get better results from my meditation one day. Still, I am mindful that I have to practice no attachment or expectation there.

I guess I am sharing with you all the above to encourage you to just do it. What is there to lose anyway? If you make a commitment and take action, I can almost guarantee that you will find much peace and happiness.

My preference is to practice breath meditation, which to many is probably the hardest (and yet the easiest). I prefer not to rely on external aids like chanting, using music, etc. but to go to the heart of the process to gaining insight.

Blessings for the New Year to you!!
Evelyn

Evelyn - January 29, 2009

Robin, have you thought of writing to Frederic (a reader to my blog)? I’m not sure if you have read some of my previous posts regarding his method of healing. In case you have not been following up on the comments to these posts, I have been receiving a few testimonials of those who have actually contacted him and managed to heal themselves very quickly. His email address is at Frederic-USA [at] bellsouth.net.

Alright, you know what…I am going to email you in just a second, so that you don’t miss my response here.

With metta,
Evelyn

Dot - January 30, 2009

Sorry I accidentally sent too many messages. By breath meditation, do you mean just following the breath? I think that’s the easiest. Yesterday I promised myself I would meditate when I got home, and then I “forgot.” Tonight is yoga, so we’ll be doing some meditation whether I want to or not. Thanks for the advice. 🙂

Shann - February 9, 2009

I enjoyed your post. I love walking meditation as well as candle gazing.
I use the mantra “i am peaceful” when my mind is over active and I want to be still.
In balance,
Shann

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