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Book Review: The Fire Starter Sessions

The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful and Practical Guide to Creating Success on Your Own Terms, a book written by Danielle Laporte, arrived at my doorstep last week at a time when I needed it. I was feeling miserable from being ill. I had sulked because I disliked being stuck in bed. My hopes for an early recovery had been dashed as the days wore on. Numbing fever and excruciating tension headaches that originated from a throat infection struck for 5 straight days.

The book had arrived early in the week but at first, I just did not feel up to reading an entire book. Then, mid-week, after waking up from a restful afternoon nap, I decided to tear open the courier package. I proceeded to read the complimentary copy sent to me by its publishing house.

I was not expecting much but what happened was that I got hooked after reading the first few pages.

The book turned out to be a God-sent. I have not read any materials by Danielle Laporte before and it was a wonderful opportunity to be introduced to her and her work.

Kick-Ass Self-Help

In a fun, somewhat brazen and punchy manner, the Fire Starter Sessions certainly got me out of my rut. Danielle espouses plenty of the things I believe in but these had gotten tucked away in a forgotten part of my mind whilst I was in a self-pity mode from being ill. So much for authenticity, I had even chastised myself while in bed. Hence, it was nice to be inspired back into a healthy state of mind by her book.

If you are expecting a self-help book in the nurturing style of Mother Theresa, pink blankets and white teddy bears, then you will be disappointed. You won’t find it in this book. The Fire Starter Sessions is meant to motivate you to take action. So its language is kick-ass! It is possible to feel as if Danielle is looking straight into you and asking you to cut the crap and be totally honest with yourself (well at least that was how I felt *sheepish grin*).


Thought-Provoking Questions

If you have enjoyed Julia Cameron’s The Artist Way, you may just enjoy the Fire Starter Series. Danielle shares that we are all artists (something which I believe too). She challenges you to examine your existing beliefs, be authentic, to honor your creative soul and to redefine success. Danielle affirms that it is the only way to “really, truly, fully live.”

In 16 sessions, you are given a series of questions to get you thinking. For instance, in the chapter, declare your superpowers, you are asked the following:
– Would you rather be sufficient or masterful?
– Would you rather be bright or freaking supernova?
– Would you rather be well-rounded or on your own leading edge?

The point made is that competency is not nearly good enough. Forget about being normal. Instead be freaky excellent. The work that you do must ignite your spark. It must be who you really are. As Danielle Potter says, you must have “got the strength and pride to fly your superhero flag.”

The Fire Starter Series is not just a book for reading. It also comes with worksheets, to do tasks and cheat sheets. I believe that if you actually get round to doing the practical exercises, you will benefit a lot more.

Quotes Big, Black and Bold

What stands out about the book is that it puts important one-liners in fonts that are big, black and bold across the pages. It would seem like a lavish use of space but I guess this must have been done deliberately for highlighting purposes. As a person who likes reading inspired sayings, I rather like this feature.

In case you are wondering, I am not obliged to write any review just because I was sent a complimentary copy of the book. I won’t want to waste your time or recommend you something that I don’t myself like. You can be assured.

Win a Free Copy of The Fire Starter Sessions

What is great is that I have arranged with the publishing firm, Random House, to give a free copy away.

Only one lucky winner will be picked. The person who can best answer the following question wins the free copy….

What does success mean to you?

Simply post the answer in the comment box below. The contest will end on April 19,2012 at 6am EST. I will be taking the next few days to get my groove back (being away last week has resulted in a pile of things to attend to) but I will be back on Thursday to announce the winner.

Love and Abundance Always,
evelyn lim signature
Author. Adventurer. Life Coach. More About Me.

P.S. Of course, you can always check Danielle’s book out at Amazon. Please click over here >>>


Contest Update

It was rather difficult to select the winner as everyone’s definition is equally valid. In the end, it was decided that we will put the short-listed submissions to a draw.

And the lucky winner is……(drumroll please)…..Janice Shephard. Congratulations!!

Thanks to those who have participated. You are all a success! Best wishes, Evelyn

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Talib H Khan - April 16, 2012 Reply

Hi,Evelyn
I can explain that success is that state when a person feel joy,happiness and positive result of his action.The thought depend on thinkpad of mind and its processing till the final shape of result which is success.Its all depend that how anyone can promote the right deeds turns into success.
The above described phenomena which gives much happiness to me and i like it to follow in rotation.
Thanks and regards,
Talib Khan

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aska - April 16, 2012 Reply

Success for me is being in tune with my life’s purpose. It’s having the feeling that I am on the right path at the right place dealing with the right people. It is about utilizing your own talents and through them inspire, motivate, let other grow. It is the feeling when you feel aligned with the life’s force which helps you thrive, bring joy, positive energy and inspiration and help other grow. For me helping others see how great they are is the biggest success and being passionate about it. Maybe it just makes sense to me but for today this is my personal definition of success;-)

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ADEBAYO DARAMOLA - April 16, 2012 Reply

Dear Evelyn,

To me, success is about a fulfilled life that affects mankind positively in term of love and meeting the needs of people without racial prejudice or discrimination.

Thank and kind regards.

Adebayo Daramola

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Nancy Skoviera - April 16, 2012 Reply

Success for Nancy:
When I finally know that I’m doing what I was made to do, having fun doing it, able to financially live off of what I’M doing (not because I’m earning money working for someone else thus it’s ultimately “their success”). I’m at a crossroad in my life right now and need to make a leap of faith. Whether or not I win a copy, I think I’ve found the kick in the pants that I need for this leap. My mind needs this book. Thank you, cheers!

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kathy - April 16, 2012 Reply

If you get paid for something you would do for free, then that’s my idea of a happy and successful person.

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Shari Beam - April 16, 2012 Reply

Dear Evelyn,
Success is the positive outcome of my plans for my life and a positive outcome for everyone involved in my life: family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, earth, universe, and source. This is a tall order but worth my time to try to achieve during the few short but amazing years in this world.
Peace,
Shari

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Vidya Sury - April 16, 2012 Reply

Sounds like a terrific book, Evelyn. I love your review.

To me, success is going to bed every night in a state of happiness that I fulfilled all my goals for the day, sorted out any issues fruitfully and feel ready to tackle the next day’s list. Long term success to me implies positive thought and action and making a difference in the lives that connect with mine.

🙂 Yes, I’d love that book!

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janice shepherd - April 16, 2012 Reply

Success means loving yourself and doing what makes you happy, on your own terms, and creating your own life in whatever way that may be and feeling that appreciation that comes from yourself and no one else!

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Christopher Lovejoy - April 16, 2012 Reply

Hi Evelyn,

I’m glad you’re feeling better. Your hearty attraction to ego is a refreshing change from your heartfelt emphasis on love.

Currently, success for Christopher means being a sovereign master with a supreme intent: be the person you wish to meet.

Please understand that this is not an entry to win the book (I have too many on my plate as it is!) – just a brief sharing.

Here’s to getting your groove back…

Much love,
Christopher

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Wong Shih Shen - April 16, 2012 Reply

What does success mean to you?

It is a state where only when you have achieve failure , will you know what is success. Without failure, the emotions and thoughts related to success won’t appear. So in life, there are ups and downs, success and failure and the laws of nature.

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Sunny - April 16, 2012 Reply

I think success is truly an individual thing. What one person believes or thinks success is, may not be what the other person thinks. I myself believe that for me to be fully successful, I would want to be self sufficient and peaceful with myself and my surroundings.

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Emily G - April 16, 2012 Reply

Success for me means doing what I love to do while being able to help others…..

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Leena - April 16, 2012 Reply

Hi,
Your question made me think very hard. Worst part is I could not define success for me. I set goals and achieve it. After achieving goals, I feel “so what,no big deal”. I never allowed myself to feel successful. Once I reach some goal,instead of celebrating that success,I set another higher goal for myself. Oh, what am I doing? I am just not allowing myself to feel successful. I always want to feel that I have to yet achieve something. This has become endless. And it makes me so uncomfortable that I always work on achieving something.
Thanks a lot Evelyn from bottom of my heart. I am now going to stop “pushing myself against another goal achievement” but going to rather celebrate smaller victories too. I am going to celebrate and feel successful when I will get some extra money,small weight loss, compliment from anyone,paying bills on time.
Thank you very much for letting me know “my biggest issue”

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Annette Kennedy - April 17, 2012 Reply

Success is being happy to be me………..to be loved and love, to have my daily needs met and have enough to share…………….success is soul abundance!

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Emily - April 17, 2012 Reply

Emily’s definition of SUCCESS:
Sing Unabashedly, Creating a Conscious, Effective Story of Self
This “backronym” illustrates my idea of what fully inhabiting my Self would look like. “Sing” does not have to be literal; I do like to sing, but “singing my song” is expressing my authentic self. Success could have many definitions, but all of them amount to telling one’s own story. “Creating” indicates my active involvement in that story (not a victim of what happens to me). The story needs to be conscious (aware, intentional, appreciative) and effective (if I don’t like what my story is doing for me, I need to tell myself a different story). S.U.C.C.E.S.S.

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Sarah Valentine - April 17, 2012 Reply

To live a life where dreams do come true regardless of what is in your bank account. To let go of inhibitions, conditions, and fear and boldly go where I have never been before…To know that everything is alright as long as I do the next right now. To be open, willing and honest with yourself and others. To have a higher power, which I call God, in my life today and see his creations in everything. To count my blessings on a daily basis. To share my experience strength & hope with others so they may live their dreams as well. To Love every aspect of your life regardless of the situation.

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tony - April 17, 2012 Reply

wow!success means fulfillment to me!

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saky - April 17, 2012 Reply

Succes mean achieve your goal,beleive in you and in what you are looking for .very nice post by the way ,i really like it .the most important in this post its to give to people the need of belief and fight for what they look for .
May i share with you some articles with the same contents
http://www.flowmagazine.gr/article/view/pws_na_diaxeiristeite_anthrwpous_me_arnhtismo/category/personal_development

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Dawn T - April 18, 2012 Reply

Success is not thinking about it too much but just knowing…
Success is living in the now and that this is where you are to be
Success is trusting in the order of life
Success is your intent
Success is finding your true self and loving who you find
Success is truly living
Success is each of us

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Clare Isherwood - April 18, 2012 Reply

Success – The achievment of reaching out to others , offering a great product and service which is true and right, not just a sell. Lifting others, raising the vibrations of others. Make this the priority and the success will bring abundance naturally. The Balance, Great Service equals Success. xx

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Bingz - April 18, 2012 Reply

Success is enjoying every bit of the journey I’m at, and yet feeling positive and energetic enough to strive for more.

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lita - April 18, 2012 Reply

Hello… I am Lita.

To me, success is a state of being fully in making life better. It is how we measure our step by step movement including how we feel of every ups and downs with gratitute and great effort to find any lesson behind every experience. It is also how we see our self as a part of a big system of the universe so that we have a big responsibility to see success as a thing to share…

With Love,
Lita.

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Noch Noch | be me. be natural. - April 18, 2012 Reply

it must be a sign of some sorts, a few people have had different situations mentioned Danielle Laporte to me in the last month alone. i must not resist the signs anymore!!

success to me is : be me

Noch Noch

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evelyne hawkins - April 18, 2012 Reply

success is rolling over and looking at the stars when Life knocks you down and then getting back up to Shine again.

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Sammybunny711 - April 18, 2012 Reply

To me, “success” means appreciating life in each and every moment. It means that you are a whole person–you love your family, friends, and enemies, give thanks at all times, and strive for your dreams while encouraging others to do the same. Success is the journey, not the end result.

Happy Wednesday, Evelyn! I hope you get to feeling better!

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Abel agbenorhevi - April 18, 2012 Reply

I view success as an achievement of something that I or ones desired example (reaching financial security,being knowledgeable among my peers)etc planned, setting and reaching meaningful goals in life.

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Dean K Miller - April 19, 2012 Reply

Success: Awareness, now, in this moment-with a smile.

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Hansen - April 19, 2012 Reply

success is what beyond dream through love

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Juan - April 23, 2012 Reply

nice post, i like

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