7 Reasons Why Create a Relationship Vision Board

“The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.” – Barbara De Angelis

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If you have had no previous luck with members of the opposite sex, consider creating a Relationship Vision Board. Oh yes, in case you are wondering, a vision board can be a great manifesting tool when properly applied. With the use of a vision board, you are creating focus on what you desire.

Let’s not deny it. We desire love. Love makes our journeys on Earth meaningful. Love is the spiritual essence that fills our hearts. By having a partner, the idea is not to expect him or her to make us complete but rather we are offering ourselves many opportunities to cultivate unconditional love.

A Relationship Vision Board is a visual representation of your affirmation for what you desire. On your board, you have pictures of you and your partner together. Your partner may be someone you already know or not know. Whoever this person is, you are focusing on the qualities of this other person.

Specific Reasons for Creating a Relationship Vision Board

Here are some specific reasons on why it is worth spending some time creating a Relationship Vision Board:

1. You keep attracting the “wrong” type.

You have no problems with attracting the opposite sex. However, you keep attracting someone who is not your “type”. There could be a number of factors such as differences in race, age, religion, habits or values. You are not able to find that special someone with most, if not all of, the qualities that you are hoping for.

2. You have been spending Valentine’s Day year after year alone but have the desire to spend the next one with someone special.

Spending Valentines year after year alone is fine if you intend to be single but not if you have the desire to be with someone in a serious relationship. You have been on the lookout but now forced to admit that you have had no luck with meeting someone nice.

3. You want to break the pattern of relationships that would usually turn out disastrous.

You took the dare to open your heart but you have found yourself in the same disastrous pattern each time. The person you date or marry will turn out to be abusive, emotionally unavailable or have an addictive behavior. It would appear that you have been making excuses and turning a blind eye or missing the signs, at the start of the relationship. You now realize that enough is enough and that you want to break the pattern of disastrous relationships.

4. You have been hoping to bring your relationship to the next level.

You are already dating but somehow your partner does not seem to be ready for the next step. And so, you are feeling bored because things are getting routine. However, your partner seems contented with how things currently are. He or she does not seem to get your hints.

Alternatively, you may already be in a committed relationship but there is something lacking that is preventing both of you from enjoying a happier time together. Maybe it is communication, differences in outlook in life or habits. You are hoping for a deeper bond. While it is great now, you realize that there could be something even better to work towards.

5. You are finally hoping to settle down with the ideal mate.

It is nice to go on dates but you are finally realizing that you are not getting any younger, that your biological clock is ticking or that you want to have children. You no longer want to date just anyone hot but someone whom you can spend the rest of your life with. It is time to be seriously looking.

6. You want to affirm your commitment.

You are ready to move on to the next level. You decide that you would like to affirm your commitment by creating a vision board, with pictures of you and your partner. You can use your Relationship Vision Board to propose (much cheaper than a diamond ring) or you can showcase your Relationship Vision Board at your wedding.

7. You want to express gratitude for your current relationship.

The Relationship Vision Board can also be used to convey your gratitude with what you are already having. If you are already married or even if things are going well, it is nice to express your appreciation. Just like anyone else, the Universe loves feedback too. When you look at your Relationship Vision Board with joy, the Universe knows that it is what you continue to desire. You receive more of the same. Your relationship gets stronger and stronger.

Tips for Creating Your Relationship Vision Board

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.'”
– Patsy Cline

1. Always have your picture on your board. You can also include a specific picture of the other person together with you if you know who he or she is.
2. List down the criteria of the person you would like to attract. Focus on the inner qualities rather than external appearance. Find pictures or words to represent the qualities that you desire in the ideal person.
3. Choose appropriate pictures of togetherness. Examples of ideal scenes: holding hands together on a beach, taking a holiday together, playing with your kids and so on.

Activating Your Vision Board

Cutting and pasting pictures on your vision board is easy and child’s play. However, there is more to creating vision boards than just a cut-and-paste job. To harness the power of your subconscious mind, you will need to learn about the science behind visioning.

Remember the saying, be careful what you wish for? You may just continue to attract what you do not want instead of what you do want, without mastery of the underlying principles. You may even give up too early because you conclude that visioning or your vision board has not worked for you.

Well, you can learn all these in a step-by-step guide. Also learn how to activate your vision board and leveraging on the Law of Attraction in your favor powerfully. There are many types of vision boards that you can create, not just relationship vision boards. Register for my Vision Board Mastery Workshop to be held in Singapore on March 10, 2012 by clicking on the banner below…

Share Your Story About Attracting Your Ideal Mate

Have you created a Relationship Vision Board previously? Do you have any success stories to share?

Love and abundance always,

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Galen Pearl - February 17, 2012 Reply

I never heard of this concept applied to relationship. That’s interesting! What kinds of vision boards have you made in your life?

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Evelyn Reply:
February 17th, 2012 at 10:45 am

Hi Galen,

Oh yes, creating a relationship vision board is not new. I have done one to affirm my desire for a harmonious and loving relationship. Each time I work on a new project, I also create a vision board for it. It is useful especially when I realize that I am in a place of discomfort from having to make a change and therefore, need to align myself with a more powerful picture. Try it!! It can be loads of fun!

With love,
Evelyn

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Vidya Sury - February 18, 2012 Reply

Creating a vision board is a beautiful concept for almost every facet of life, Evelyn. I love how you’ve made the step-by-step guide for relationships – which really define our lives to such a great extent. Feng Shui teaches something similar. 🙂

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Jason Fonceca Reply:
February 19th, 2012 at 4:41 am

I agree with Vidya! This is a great post, and a helpful tool.

Thanks Evelyn!

To me a vision board is a name for a tool that has existed since the dawn of time 😉

Focus.

Most people have 60,000 thoughts or so a day, how many of them are focused on enjoyable aspects of a relationship? How many in a row?

Vision boards help so much with this.

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Evelyn Reply:
February 20th, 2012 at 4:54 pm

Well said, Jason. Vision board is nothing new, although it is seen as a “new age” thing. I also like what you pointed out focusing more attention on enjoyable thoughts. And yes, a vision board helps us with that required focus. It has certainly helped me.

Abundance always,
Evelyn

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Cathy | Treatment Talk - February 19, 2012 Reply

Hi Evelyn,

Vision boards can redirect our attention to the qualities that we desire as you have explained so well in your post. What a great idea to do a vision board for a relationship. Sometimes we can get into relationships for all the wrong reasons, and not be able to see it through to find the type of person that would be better for us. Your workshop sounds interesting and would be helpful to many!!

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Evelyn Reply:
February 20th, 2012 at 5:00 pm

Hello Cathy,

It is a common experience to go for external appearances rather than focus on the values of the person we are looking for. Visioning helps remind us what is more important.

In the Vision Board Mastery workshop, we are going to have lots of fun while learning some very useful principles for more empowered living. I am looking forward to sharing more of what I have learned. I sure wish that you can attend my workshop too 🙂

Abundance always,
Evelyn

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Shoshana Jackson - April 30, 2012 Reply

I like the idea of having a relationship vision board, if only to help you focus on what’s important. It’s easy to lose track of the big picture when you’re dating or just starting out in a relationship.

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Aju - March 1, 2013 Reply

Hello Evelyn,

I love the idea of a Vision Board for a Relationships (existing or new). I have a simple Vision Board (.ppt presentation) set-up with just 2 pics (of us) and couple of texts. My question to you would be is it apt and do you have to view the (.ppt) presentation everyday ?
* Its currently the Wallpaper on my Laptop 🙂

Thanks,
Aju.

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